This uses Group Policies which is not enabled in the Home version. Professional users can proceed to the steps.
Home users can enable group policies, follow steps on this page:
https://www.itechtics.com/enable-gpedit ... s-10-home/
Change Setting to Notify:
Search/Run gpedit.msc
Select Local Computer Policy > Administrative Templates > Windows Components > Windows Update
Right Click Configure Automatic Updates > Edit/Properties
Select Enabled and Option 2 "Notify for download and notify for install" > Apply > OK
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Disable Windows Update
Note: you will have to re-enable these to update manually.
Search/Run services.msc
Double Click Windows Update
Select Startup Type> Disabled > Apply > OK
Double Click Background Intelligence Transfer Service
Select Startup Type> Disabled > Apply > OK
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